update dingaling to be able to use TLS jabber servers such as googletalk

see sample config for new options.

the dingaling library has changed so you must rebuild it 
rm libs/libdingaling/.complete
make installall



git-svn-id: http://svn.freeswitch.org/svn/freeswitch/trunk@2251 d0543943-73ff-0310-b7d9-9358b9ac24b2

conf/freeswitch.xml

@@ -254,6 +254,13 @@
         <param name="message" value="Jingle all the way"/>
         <param name="rtp-ip" value="10.0.0.1"/>
         <param name="auto-login" value="true"/>
+        <!-- SASL "plain" or "md5" -->
+        <param name="sasl" value="plain"/>
+        <!-- if the server where the jabber is hosted is not the same
+        as the one in the jid -->
+        <!--<param name="server" value="alternate.server.com"/>-->
+        <!-- Enable TLS or not -->
+        <param name="tls" value="true"/>
         <!-- disable to trade async for more calls -->
         <param name="use-rtp-timer" value="true"/>
         <!-- or -->